If you are reading this for your own needs, you probably have information that there has been some degree of sexual betrayal in your relationship. Maybe you have just learned of a past deception through a confession. Perhaps you have uncovered some painful truth in the present and have gnawing suspicions that there is more to come. Maybe your instincts are telling you things are not right, but without solid evidence you feel you have no grounds to speak up, yet nagging doubts leave you unable to trust in your partner's integrity. Possibly you have been enduring betrayal in your relationship for many years, and you are now ready to confront the circumstances in a new manner.

Yet no matter the situation, you are not alone. As much as you may feel isolated in your distress, millions of women are experiencing the same pain, attempting to navigate through what appears to be uncharted territory. Regardless of whether his interest is with other females or with his own gender; that lone detail does not change how you will need to deal with your situation. Whether you have discovered a one time affair or a long standing relationship with pornography, prostitutes, or an individual, the path to your healing is the same. Determining if your relationship is salvageable is to be found along a separate but parallel journey.

AVENUE’S purpose is to provide a true compass for those things you most need for these circumstances. We offer books by those that have walked this path too. Because we firmly believe it is imperative that you have women in your life that you can talk to about your situation, we help form AVENUE peer groups across the country, and we help you to locate such a woman’s AVENUE group in your area. This focused healing study is appropriate for a wife, fiancee, girlfriend and widow.

The questions below are the most important things that women want or need to have answers for. The answers are found within “The Healing Choice” book and the companion Guidebook, which are the curriculum for the AVENUE peer groups.

• Are my emotions normal?
• Do I stay, divorce or separate?
• How can I know if my husband is at it again?
• Do I react in unhealthy or destructive ways to my situation?
• Why does he keep breaking his promises?
• How can I create firm boundaries without becoming harsh?
• How can I distinguish between truth and a lie?
• How can love work when I’ve been so unloved?
• How can I know where my marriage and life will end up?
• How can I know if he is worthy of my trust again?
• Have I lost myself in my desperation to please my husband?
• Has my own past hindered having a healthy relationship?
• What does a faithful husband actually look like?
• How do I protect my children?
• Will I ever stop feeling this way?

Every woman in this situation can gain insight about her circumstances by reading "The Healing Choice" book and Guidebook. Next, I pray that you reach out beyond that step to find a few women who are on this same unintended journey. Why not begin now? Click on the Bookstore for your own copy of "The Healing Choice" then click on Find a Group, to put yourself in good company.